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Listed below are some common warning signs that a person is or may turn out to be abusive to his or her intimate partner. Answering “Yes” to a question does not mean a person is abusive. However, if any of the questions below are true about you or your partner, you should be cautious about continuing the relationship.
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Warning
Signs |
True
of Me |
True
of My Partner |
Abused by parent | |
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Grew up in home where parent was abused by the other parent | |
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Gets very serious with boyfriend/girlfriend very quickly in relationship | |
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Comes on very strong, is extremely charming and overly smooth talker | |
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Is extremely jealous | |
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Isolates partner from support systems- won’t let partner see friends, family or have outside activities or makes them feel guilty about it | |
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Blames others for one’s own misbehavior | |
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Abuses drugs or alcohol | |
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Has unrealistic expectations, like expecting partner to meet all of one’s needs | |
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Is overly sensitive-acts ‘hurt’ when not getting one’s way, takes offense when others disagree with an opinion | |
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Has ever been cruel to animals | |
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Has ever abused children | |
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Has ever hit a boyfriend or girlfriend | |
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Has ever threatened violence, even if it wasn’t a ‘serious’ threat | |
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Calls partner names, puts him/her down or curses at him/her | |
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Is extremely moody, and switches quickly from being very nice to exploding in anger | |
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If a male, believes women are inferior to men and should obey them | |
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Is intimidating, for example: threatening body language, punching walls or breaking objects | |
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Holds partner against his/her will to keep them from walking away or leaving the room | |
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